Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Stephen playing some songs for the teens.

After Saturday visitation, we had about 13 kids come up to the church to fellowship and sing some songs. It was so nice to see them signing and enjoying such a wholesome moment in time. 
I heard about ten different times from the kids that christians are fun to hang out with. It just warmed my heart to hear them say such a nice things so genuinely. 
If you knew these kids and how they have been raised and what kind of environment the live in, you would understand just why what they said meant so much to us.  
We know what they are really seeing Christ through us. 

Monday, April 7, 2008

Little actions, Big lessons

A blog from our time in N. Ireland. 

Wondering if you are having an impact on the kids you teach?
 
I know that I do. We have been here a while now and it seems as if we are not making any head way at times. Recently, I had been thinking how I would like to see something to know what we were doing is having some effect. I had not told anyone I was a little discouraged, so I wouldn't bring them down with me. Then God allowed me to see something so good that I thought I would share.
It was a Tuesday night at the youth club, like any other. John Silverson, Stephen and I played some games with the kids until half 7, then John gave a lesson from the bible. The lesson was about the women who gave all she had to the Lord for her offering. I thought the kids listened well about the same as they do every week. 
I believe God was doing something in their hearts I couldn't see, because the next Sunday Amy one of our faithful Tuesday night goers came in for sunday school. Now from what I understand Amy used to come in for Sunday School but has not been in for a long while. Well I was sure glad to see her. She looked a little out of sorts, her long hair not fully brushed and kind of sleepy eyed still, but she was there and I praised the Lord in my heart for it. 
The service began with some songs and then the offering. That is when God let me see something very special that the others apparently didn't notice. Amy went up to give her offering and very shyly so no one would notice she pulled out a bag of coins from her jumper pocket and placed the bag gently into the bucket so none would hear them then she meekly made her way back to her seat. She left that day never bragging about her gift or bringing any notice to herself.  
It has been a couple of weeks since that event and Amy has not been back to Sunday school, I don't know why? I hope she starts coming back in soon. She is a very good listener and really enjoys the fellowship at our Tuesday club. So I don't understand what is keeping her away on sundays. 
I just thought it was a great blessing from the Lord. I had been a little down in my heart about seeing some sort of effect for the work we are doing. God had apparently spoken something to her for her to be there, maybe it was the lesson on Tuesday about the women giving to the Lord, I would like to think God moved in her heart about it. 

I pray the Lord continues to move in the hearts of the people we are working with. 
Sometimes it is the little things God uses to show me a big lesson. 

The Rich Family In Church

I heard this for the first time about 8 yrs ago. It touched my heart then and again today. I thought I would share it with you.

The Rich Family In Church
By Eddie Ogan

I'll never forget Easter 1946. I was 14, my little sister Ocy was 12, and my older sister Darlene 16. We lived at home with our mother, and the four of us knew what it was to do without many things. My dad had died five years before, leaving Mom with seven school kids to raise and no money.

By 1946 my older sisters were married and my brothers had left home. A month before Easter the pastor of our church announced that a special Easter offering would be taken to help a poor family. He asked everyone to save and give sacrificially.

When we got home, we talked about what we could do. We decided to buy 50 pounds of potatoes and live on them for a month. This would allow us to save $20 of our grocery money for the offering. When we thought that if we kept our electric lights turned out as much as possible and didn't listen to the radio, we'd save money on that month's electric bill. Darlene got as many house and yard cleaning jobs as possible, and both of us babysat for everyone we could. For 15 cents we could buy enough cotton loops to make three pot holders to sell for $1.

We made $20 on pot holders. That month was one of the best of our lives.

Every day we counted the money to see how much we had saved. At night we'd sit in the dark and talk about how the poor family was going to enjoy having the money the church would give them. We had about 80 people in church, so figured that whatever amount of money we had to give, the offering would surely be 20 times that much. After all, every Sunday the pastor had reminded everyone to save for the sacrificial offering.

The day before Easter, Ocy and I walked to the grocery store and got the manager to give us three crisp $20 bills and one $10 bill for all our change.

We ran all the way home to show Mom and Darlene. We had never had so much money before.

That night we were so excited we could hardly sleep. We didn't care that we wouldn't have new clothes for Easter; we had $70 for the sacrificial offering.

We could hardly wait to get to church! On Sunday morning, rain was pouring. We didn't own an umbrella, and the church was over a mile from our home, but it didn't seem to matter how wet we got. Darlene had cardboard in her shoes to fill the holes. The cardboard came apart, and her feet got wet.

But we sat in church proudly. I heard some teenagers talking about the Smith girls having on their old dresses. I looked at them in their new clothes, and I felt rich.

When the sacrificial offering was taken, we were sitting on the second row from the front. Mom put in the $10 bill, and each of us kids put in a $20.

As we walked home after church, we sang all the way. At lunch Mom had a surprise for us. She had bought a dozen eggs, and we had boiled Easter eggs with our fried potatoes! Late that afternoon the minister drove up in his car. Mom went to the door, talked with him for a moment, and then came back with an envelope in her hand. We asked what it was, but she didn't say a word. She opened the envelope and out fell a bunch of money. There were three crisp $20 bills, one $10 and seventeen $1 bills.

Mom put the money back in the envelope. We didn't talk, just sat and stared at the floor. We had gone from feeling like millionaires to feeling like poor white trash. We kids had such a happy life that we felt sorry for anyone who didn't have our Mom and Dad for parents and a house full of brothers and sisters and other kids visiting constantly. We thought it was fun to share silverware and see whether we got the spoon or the fork that night.

We had two knifes that we passed around to whoever needed them. I knew we didn't have a lot of things that other people had, but I'd never thought we were poor.

That Easter day I found out we were. The minister had brought us the money for the poor family, so we must be poor. I didn't like being poor. I looked at my dress and worn-out shoes and felt so ashamed—I didn't even want to go back to church. Everyone there probably already knew we were poor!

I thought about school. I was in the ninth grade and at the top of my class of over 100 students. I wondered if the kids at school knew that we were poor. I decided that I could quit school since I had finished the eighth grade. That was all the law required at that time. We sat in silence for a long time. Then it got dark, and we went to bed. All that week, we girls went to school and came home, and no one talked much. Finally on Saturday, Mom asked us what we wanted to do with the money. What did poor people do with money? We didn't know. We'd never known we were poor. We didn't want to go to church on Sunday, but Mom said we had to. Although it was a sunny day, we didn't talk on the way.

Mom started to sing, but no one joined in and she only sang one verse. At church we had a missionary speaker. He talked about how churches in Africa made buildings out of sun dried bricks, but they needed money to buy roofs. He said $100 would put a roof on a church. The minister said, "Can't we all sacrifice to help these poor people?" We looked at each other and smiled for the first time in a week.

Mom reached into her purse and pulled out the envelope. She passed it to Darlene. Darlene gave it to me, and I handed it to Ocy. Ocy put it in the offering.

When the offering was counted, the minister announced that it was a little over $100. The missionary was excited. He hadn't expected such a large offering from our small church. He said, "You must have some rich people in this church."

Suddenly it struck us! We had given $87 of that "little over $100."

We were the rich family in the church! Hadn't the missionary said so? From that day on I've never been poor again. I've always remembered how rich I am because I have Jesus!

Back at Faith

We arrived at church Sunday night excited to hear about the service sunday morning and how many of our kids were there. 
The report was good we had 13 show up for Sunday school and most stayed for the morning service. A missionary we know preached for Stephen Sunday morning and we had good comments on how things went. 
Sunday night we were a little on the slimmer side, although one of the girls came out all by her self, I was very proud of her for being there. It is really hard to be faithful when you do not have support in the home or from your peers. Praise the Lord for this young lady. 

The message Stephen brought Sunday night was a great encouragement to all of us. As most of you know when God is doing a good work and things are going well in the ministry the devil starts throwing trails at you left and right. The Lord really spoke to my heart through the message, "when weeks become years" out of the book of Daniel. He brought out how when we are facing trails it is hard to see an end to what is going on. So we have to put our faith in the Lord and understand that it will pass. It may not be in our timing but it will be in His. God does not give us more than we can handle. I was reminded of what Mrs. Betty once told me, about God counting us strong enough to handle the trail he is allowing us to go through. I guess what point I am trying to make is, I am glad that God thinks I am strong enough to handle what is going on, even if at times it doesn't feel that way.

Our weekend

We spent Saturday night with Travis and Teri up in Londonderry, so we could be closer to Roe Valley Baptist Church in Limavady Sunday morning where Stephen was getting to preach. 

We had a great time with the kids and Grant even shared his birthday cake with us. He is getting so big, he is talking up a storm too, as long as he isn't waking up. I have to say it was so nice to be around friends we know so well. Sometimes you don't realize just how much you need fellowship with other christians, it has been a true blessing from the Lord the few times we have been able to go visit with Travis and Teri.  Teri is a great cook so anytime we have an opportunity to go for dinner... I mean a spend time with them, we are excited about going.

We woke up bright and early to get ready for the drive to Limavady, I had not been there before so I was looking forward to seeing the church and getting to know Marsha and the kids a little better. Pastor Ronnie Smith was a away preaching in Wales so we missed out on visiting with him. 
We had a good service at Roe Valley, Marsha and the kids did a great job with the music. It was a blessing to here Austin and Amber sing. I hope I got the names right.  Stephen preached a great message on the lions in our life. The church people were so friendly and like most northern Ireland people I have met they like to wined you up or get you going. 
Marsha invited us and the Snodes over for dinner after church. So after the service we went over and got to visit with her and the kids well she made supper. She out did herself for sure. We had home made rolls, mac & cheese, chicken tenders, corn, coleslaw, mashed taters and apple carrot cake to finish it off. What a great meal. We really had a good time. 
We started to get ready to leave when a storm blew in bringing with it pea size hail, lasting only about 10 minutes, pretty normal weather for here. 
We headed home with a warm heart and very full belly. 

Sunday, April 6, 2008

An opening door

We are seeing God start to move in the hearts of some parents of the kids saved in the last couple of weeks. 

Saturday after visitation, I had the privilege to led a young lady to the Lord.  This young lady is the sister of two boys that got saved last week. So the Lord is really doing a work in their family. 

One of her brothers left his bible at church so Stephen and I decided to run it by his house because we were so close. When we got to his house we were greeted at the door by a younger sister we have not met. We asked if the boy was home and when she said no we asked if her dad was there. We handed her the bible and she disappeared into the living room, so we were left on the front steps with the door wide open. It was a little awkward to say the least. We didn't know if we should go or stay she had not said anything before she walked away so we waited to see what happened. A few moments later the father appeared in the door way, it was very clear we caught him off guard. The father explained he had just got a call about his father so he was a little frazzled, we told him we would be praying for their family, said our goodbyes and away we went. 
We normally would have called before ever stopping by someone's home unannounced. A lesson I learned from my mother (thanks mom). One of the girls needed a lift up that direction and we were right next door so we stopped in. We felt bad about our poor timing. So we headed home with a prayer in our hearts for this father of 5 and his dad's bad health. We really were hoping we had not put the father off with our unexpected visit. 

A few minutes after getting home my mobile phone rang. It was I. the man we had just stopped by to visit, he had my number from when the kids came to the house last week. He wanted to apologize for not having us into the house and let us know we were welcome anytime, it was just a bad time when we stopped in because he thought he was going to have to leave and check on his dad. I told him we understood and not to worry in the least. 

Then he said he wanted to thank us for what we are doing for his kids. He explained that they have been going through some very dark days in their family and the kids getting saved has brought a light into their home. The kids have been talking to their parents about church and how salvation makes you feel, they have also been inviting their parents down to our meetings. He then explained to me that he and his wife have been talking the last couple of days about coming round, they just are not ready yet. I told him that we would love to see them and gave a personal invitation from Stephen and myself. He said he would try to come around before we left. 

We are planning on stopping by to visit this family in the next day or so calling first of course. Please be in prayer for this family as it is the Lord continues move in their hearts.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

American Hamburger

So we went to a chippy here in town to get some take away the other night. When I was looking at the menu I saw an American Burger as an option, so being the American I am, I ordered one. 
When we got back to the house the American burger had a slightly different spin when it came to the toppings. Thats right your eyes see a very large slice of pineapple resting on the traditional  lettuce, tomato, and onion. 
It just goes to show that everyone has a different view of what American really is. 
In the burgers defense, Stephen said it was delicious, I however was not so daring this go around. 

Friday, April 4, 2008

Not just another Friday night!!!!

The more I look at this arm, the more upset I get. 
This arm belongs to 13 yr old kid. She came into a room tonight where I was talking to some other girls about getting saved, when one of the girls noticed she was bleeding. I asked her what happened and she showed me her bloody arm this is the cleaned up version here. 
What is going on in her life hurts so much she thinks this helps make it better.  
This girl is lost and I believe she wants to get saved. She even told me tonight that she was going to get saved after the meeting but some of her "Friends" told her she would be stupid to do it.  
I think what hurts most for me is knowing I can not make the decision for her. I just am so tore up over this. If you could have been there to hear the things she is going through and what life is like for her. I am not an easy person to fool and I read people pretty well so I think she is on the level. Please pray for her. She needs the Lord so much. Pray for God's protection for these kids, some of the things that happen here are just crazy. 



Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Wednesday night

We are rejoicing in the Lord for 12 in service tonight 2 of which were first time visitors brought by one of the boys saved on Friday night. 
It is such a great encouragement to have these come and be part of our services. 
Please keep these kids in your prayers. They will be faced with a lot of challenges a long the way. 

What language is it anyway?

So have you worked with teenagers before? If you have you understand they have a language all their own. 
Stephen and I were getting ready to head to the church and we got a text message from one of the kids that got saved Friday night. I saw it first, I could not help but have a puzzled blank look come across my face. I then asked Stephen if he could understand the message. We even got out our laptop and tried to google text messaging codes to see if we could avoid the dreaded, I am old and just don't get it, talk. 
I mean can you all tell me what this means? (We're der nie) Ok we did get the first word pretty quickly. We are leaving in another country and some words mean different things. Can I just say that with every text I was thinking what language are they speaking? With words popping up like, tym, dat, oryt, and a phrase like TB Nii3. English was not my first guess. 
It has been fun learning a new language while we have been here. I do hope some writes TEXT Messaging for dummies soon, I know that I sure need it. 
Please pray for our meeting tonight, we are praying the teenagers come back. It has been two whole days and a lot can happen in a young persons life in two days. I will tell you all about it tonight.